There 2 basic types of people who fulfil the role of someone who has the right to tell you what is wrong and right about you.
It is a kind of mix between a Guru and psychologist.
They act as though they know you better then you.
They are not humble. They are condescending without getting any permission from you.
The make you feel small and incapable.
They are very convincing as though they have a monopole about your life and how you mismanaging them.
In truth is that they could know nothing about what is happening in you.
You are a sealed envelope for them and the only thing they can do is invent,
The only cannel which could be open for them is an equal and open dialogue, done with cooperation and willingness from the part of the partner.
But most of those high figures take upon themselves the privilege to know all about you and give you advices which are impossible to live by.
Without quale cooperation and compassion from the advice giver – no advice could be effective at all. Only widening the gap between the guru or the psychologist.
Gabriel raam
Gabriel